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I will begin my review with giving kudos to Ms. Karu for sharing with
her own personal “gremlins” It definitely makes the reader see that
they aren’t the only one who suffers with them, and lets them see that
perhaps theirs aren’t as bad as they’d initially thought.
I am a memoir lover to begin with, I particularly liked Stepping Into
More because not only was it a memoir about someone who has attributes
similiar to my own, but because this person also learned how to deal
with it and has opened herself to help the many that suffer from the
same.
I was almost shocked to read how similar our childhoods were. Though the
biggest difference was Ms. Karu’s constant moving. I smiled a bit when
she became a “punker” since it reminded my of my own life back at that
age.
The summaries at the end of each are vital to the reader and should not
be overlooked as mere summaries of the chapter. While they are summaries
of the chapter, I feel Ms. Karu placed there as sort of study guides. A
way for the reader to see how to deal with certain situations and when
to let that perfectionist come out and when to hold it at bay. Using
herself as the example in each “lesson” was an ingenious tool. It
alleviates the lecture sense most texts on how to improve yourself
impose, therefore lightening the mood on the reader so they can still
enjoy the memoir without feeling the pressures of the semi hidden
lessons.
The questions at the end of each chapter re amazing! They really make
the reader sit down and really think to answer them. I think I’m still
trying to figure out the answers to these questions myself. I DO think
the questions are very important since they make the reader really sit
down and evaluate their own experiences. I, myself never thought of
myself as suffering from Perfectionism. That assumption has been
painfully reversed as with each chapter I read, I saw more and more of
myself as the one telling the story.
At one point I was almost sure Ms. Karu had somehow figured out my own
experiences in life and somehow even tapped into the very core of my
being. I’m sure many others who read this book feel the same way. And
really, that’s what makes this book an excellent learning tool. The
author has written this with her whole heart. I’m quite sure as she
remembered missing one grandfather’s funeral and nearly missing the
other one that those desperate. anxious tears fell again just they had
at the times of the events.
As I’ve read I’ve walked through Ms. Karu’s life, laughed at her points,
shed tears at her most painful points. These are the marks of a good
writer. Someone who can make you see and feel everything their main
character does, especially when that main character is them self. After
all a memoir is written to gain closure and understanding and I assure
you upon the understanding part, Ms. Karu hit the mark. As to the
closure? She alone knows if this have helped her.
